BELIEVE

Most people always judge people by their outlook and the things they do.They 

never try to really get to know the person, that is why they say, "never judge a

 book by it's cover." I always feel let down when i get to know people's personal

opinions about me but now I am like, " what the hell" these guyz contribute 0% to

my life and most of them mean nothing to me. I have reached a point in my life where

I do not really care what people think anymore because it really does not matter. Life 

does not really matter, I do not belong here, earth is just my temporary home, I am just

on a journey that I have to pass. The easy way of life only leads to hell but the way to

eternal life is long, hard and tedious.

We always complain that life is hard but it's for a reason and maybe for the best. I am so 

tired right now, life seems so meaningless because every time I try to do away with my past

life, something just keeps pulling me back but I have to struggle because I want to be a better

person, I do not want my child or anyone that is little to pass through the life that I have been 

through. I want them to have a better and meaningful life and I believe you all do. Nobody

wants to be poor that is why most people are isolated, even at school, we are all witnesses

to this.

I believe that the only way to achieve whatever you want in life is to work hard, pray and believe.

Our faith is very strong, it does not matter whether you are a moslem, christian, pagan or a devil 

worshiper. Most times whatever we think about comes to pass whether it is negative or positive, 

that is why it is important to always have positive thoughts. We always have to believe that we

can achieve anything because most of the important and rich people today had nothing.But they

made something out of that nothing. Do not just sit around and wait for things to happen....

," MAKE IT HAPPEN."

HIGH SCHOOL

High school is like a once in a life time experience. It is considered as one of the most interesting parts of some people’s lives, it is like a turning point. It gives you a new outlook on life, it is like starting a new chapter in a novel. You never know what is going to happen, everyday comes with its surprises. High school can either make you or break you, that all depends on the way you live your life while there.

Most of the students in high school choose to live a celebrity life style even though they are obviously not celebrities. They emulate the icons in the music and film industry. For some it may work out just fine basically because they got the good looks, good personality, money and obviously the swag. No offense but if you lack any of the above then do not try to live the celebrity life style. The students who fall in this category are mostly popular in school, most students admire and try to be friends with them. Everything is glitz and glamor for these students, the only negative side of this category is that most of them are actually daft (still no offense) but they still make it in life. It is all about applying your talents in the most useful and resourceful way.

Some students choose to be the disciples of the popular kids in school. Research shows that most of them come from humble homes with strict parents. So they are probably looking for a distraction from the reality of their lives. Good thing is that most of them have brains so the popular students find them useful. But the funny thing is that some actually forget about where they come from and start over flossing about what they do not have. Which makes people to really take interest in their lives and when reality checks in, the world comes crushing down on them. If only they had lived there own lives and kept a low profile, no one would even bother trying to find out,...... what to them is a dear secret.

While others choose to live a quiet and simple life and it is the best choice. The less someone knows about you, the less reasons they have to talk about you. This is the best category of people, they have both brains and talents. This makes them cool to both students and teachers, they live a comfortable life in school and have less drama in their lives. Luck is not always in their way but their lives are definitely filled with surprises, strong hopes and dreams that come true even though they take time. Most of them make it in life, they may not make it as big as they want but they get somewhere above the rest. These are the quiet cool people that we have in school and most times we under estimate them. But after high school they are the ones that take the trophy as the rest look on.

High school is not all about having fun and showing off. It is also about determining your future and making a name for yourself.

LOVE

Love is patient and kind, it is not jealous or

conceited or proud.

Love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable;

Love does not keep a record of wrongs.

Love is not happy with evil, but is happy with

the truth.

Love never gives up and it's faith, hope and

patience never fail

Love is eternal.... as said in the Bible...

first corinthians chapter 13 verse 4-7

But that is according to the Bible.

Here is what i have to say about love.

Love is poetry.... a work of art.

Love is not meant to be a job, it is

a priority, a pleasure.

Love is something that puts a smile on 

your face everyday.

Love is magical because it is unexplainable.

Love makes you think of that one person 

that your heart desires the most.....

That is love according to me....

 

 

GRATITUDE

Most people are not grateful for the things they have, they always want more. The only way we can get more is by first being grateful for the little things we have. We can start by being grateful for our lives, jobs, parents, spouses, friends, cars and anything else that we own. Get a special rock and call it your rock of gratitude, every morning when you wake up get your rock and remember everything that you are grateful for and be thankful, put it in your pocket or purse and go on with your daily routine. At night when you are going back to sleep, put your rock of gratitude on your dressing table and there it is, you will automatically remember everything that you are grateful for. Do it daily and you will get results, positive results.

Have you ever noticed that rich people show their kids a lot of love and nurture them to be rich, creative, hard working and great thinkers like them. This is because they are happy, they earn their money through genuine hard work, they have nothing to be sad about because basically they got everything but this does not apply to all the rich people you see around. No offence but most poor people show less or no love to their children because they are always annoyed and depressed about money issues and their kids are like a burden to them. The more they worry about how they are going to get the money, the more they get depressed because they think that it is impossible for them to even have any money at all.

Poor people always have a negative attitude towards everything that is why they keep attracting negative vibes to their lives, and rich people always look on the bright side of life. They think positively and end up attracting positive things into their lives. Sometimes it beats my understanding when I see a Christian down on their knees praying to God with all the faith in the world and when they walk out of church, they go home and wait for miracles to happen. The funny thing is that they leave all their faith and hope in church, they keep thinking negatively and give up easily. God hears all our prayers and he answers them, even though he takes time sometimes. Only God knows the perfect time and he is always there for us, just believe.

A FEELING

I hate the fact that because of our past, we can not be trusted anymore. There is nothing much I can do or say about it, I hate being shouted at..... I know I have no proper rights yet but soon I will... I am pissed off... I stared at the laptop screen for long enough, I am trying to watch a series called common law because it is funny. I am just trying to lift back my moods, this is going to be the shortest article I have ever written.

However much you try to change there are only a few people who will appreciate that at least you tried and you made an improvement. I've tried my best to change and if some people can accept me the way I am, then it is best they stop trusting in me and believe whatever they want to believe. I have absolutely no reason to lie these days.... I've got nothing to hide so believe me when I say something, it's just that. I am not asking for much just believe me, okay now I feel bit okay I have got it off my chest. Its a lousy article...I know. But I am going to publish it anyway.........

MY TREASURE

Most people spend their entire lives looking for treasures and by treasures I mean, gold, diamonds, your loved ones; this can either be your mother, father, boyfriend/ girlfriend, sister/brother, cousin, aunt or uncle, grandparents. Maybe you have other suggestions for treasures, a treasure is meant to give you everything, be your everything but most of all give you happiness.

I was a very sad girl, quiet most of the time, I felt bad that I had bad teeth and could not smile like other people, I could not express my happiness, I was never myself. I was so withdrawn from the world. I loved playing with dolls, I would feel like I am in another planet because I hated the fact that I was alive but I had to deal with it because I was afraid of death. But I was beautiful, that is the only thing that gave me hope but it also took me time to accept my beauty. I started falling in love with myself slowly and other people fell in love with me as well.

So I started looking for happiness in various ways, I always tried to please my parents, I made friends with people that would do crazy things, prayed to God, bonded with my mum, I did my best in school to please teachers, joined the church choir, dated for a while until I got bored. I got tired of doing everything that was to please other people and decided to start pleasing myself that is when I started to experience happiness and people called me all sorts of things, starting with proud, selfish, braggart, self centered. And I felt absolutely nothing because I did not owe anyone anything.

The only person that I owe my happiness to is my mother, she was the one that gave birth to me, that I am now grateful for, she gave me the beauty that I have, paid my school fees and provided for me everything  that I have ever needed. The best gift of all is that she brought me up in the best way and I am proud to be her daughter and I hope that she is proud of me too. I took long to realize that my mother actually loves me, I realized it when she started taking me to the dentist to find a solution to my bad teeth that was around the age of nine. My teeth are a challenge to most dentists so we took long to find the best dentist to work on them and when we did, I was seventeen and the dentist decided that I was old enough to get artificial teeth, it is a painful process (that I am still going through) but it has made me and the people who care happy. My mum is my pride and joy if she ever leaves, my happiness will be gone, she has sacrificed a lot for me. 

My mother is my best friend, sister, my everything. She gave birth to me and made it her obligation to bring happiness into my life, she knew the sole reason why I was sad even though we never talked much about it. My mother is not the best person on earth but she is the best to me even though we have had our rough times but it is all part of growing up. My mother is my treasure. What is your treasure?  

DEAR LADIES

re- posted from Al Kabir Brian Nandala's articles 

DEAR LADIES,
Be a Woman, Not a Slut!

Partying, clubbing, getting wasted, sleeping with randoms, going out every weekend, etc. Is only "fun" for so long because at some point you get bored with all that because you grow up and realize all you're doing is trying to escape loneliness and emptiness. A lot of you chicks who brag about getting drunk, how you had so much fun last night, how you don't ne...ed a man blah blah blah, how you "think like a man", you are going to get tired of being just a booty call and going home alone after the club every weekend or hooking up with random dudes who don't even respect you. 

 

When you finally are ready to grow up and become wife material instead of a alcoholic, party girl, drug addict, booty call, jumpoff, etc. Ain't no real men going to be checking for you anymore, so you are going to get bac...k with your ex like most females do or settle for some low life who ain't about shit like most females do then be pissed later crying about "why can't I find a good man?" The answEr is simply because you WEREN'T ABOUT SHIT WHEN GOOD MEN GAVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY!
 

So to the females who love going to hood bars, love getting attention from thirsty dudes, love sitting on Facebook taking ratchetpics, love uggling dudes, have to sleep alone every night, have fun being a booty call, have fun being labeled everything but a WOMAN, have fun being some nigga's option, instead of a real man's priority all because you are scaredof commitment and can't handle something REAL.
 

You can't be a slut your whole life,or have a bunch of kids by different guys, or "go out" every weekend, and then expect a real man to "court" you. It doesn't work that way. If you wanna be courted, then be the type of woman a man would want to court because men don't want to wife a hoodrat or a chick with a bunch of kids or a female who embarrasses herself for attention.
 

So make your next move the best move ladies. Stop playing yourselves. "Having fun" shouldn'tinclude losing self respect!