We live in a world with all kinds of different people, but
some people are so uniquely made that they stand out at some point in their
lives. All our lives we are surrounded by people who love and care about us,
friends, family and relatives. But they do not know us, they just know what we
choose to show them. Nobody knows anyone’s motives or aim in life in anything
that they strive to do. You can never claim to know anyone too well because you
do not know their thoughts and feelings.
Most of our friends will claim to know us so well because
they spend most of their time with us. They are quick to judge us for the
things we do without knowing our intentions. You can never know someone’s
intentions if they never tell you. All our friends are attracted to us for
reasons best known to them. Some may be genuine friends and most are fake
friends. There is a reason why we are brought into this world alone, because
however much we may surround ourselves with many people in the end we are
alone.
Someone once told me that what I write about in my blogs
contradicts what I do. Well, all I can say is do not do as I do but do as I say.
You can either take it or leave it, there is a reason why some people may read
my blog and others may not. I would personally never judge anyone because everyone
has a reason why they act and do the things they do, it is easier to try and understand
and appreciate someone than to judge them.
I may ask a lot of various people for advice just with an aim
to see how good or bad their intentions are for me. It is always good never to
let people know so much about you, only choose to show them what they should. Keeping
your life a secret is the best way to live peacefully because it is only you
who knows what exactly you want out of life. Everyone comes with their own
baggage, so before you judge someone try to understand that person and imagine
what you would do if you were in their shoes. Act human if you want to equally
want to be treated as a human.
