Remember that saying, about the world
being round, it’s true and best practical example is the way how women are
slowly taking over the world. Whether you see it or not, accept it or not, it
is happening and it is slowly picking pace. Men have dominated the world for
too long and subjected women to a lot of things. In the past, as a girl your
parents made the decision of whom you should marry and bear children with. All this
was done for the parents benefit, bride price was given to them and the girl
child would not even get a portion of that bride price. That was how bad it was
but with time this practice has phased out.
They say money is not everything but
in the world we live in today, money is everything. It is funny how a man can
promise a girl heaven on earth even when he has nothing. When reality hits and
they are married with no money, frustration and anger kicks in and life becomes
unbearable. Yes, there will be some happy times but the bad times will outweigh
the good times and the picture would have been different if they had money. Sad
fact is a woman will leave a poor man to be with a rich man whether she loves
him or not. Simply because the society today is all about status and the poor
life is too hard to live. Who does not love a simple life?
Men had their time to play with women’s
hearts and break them and in all this time women were trying to be loyal. Now the tables have turned,
women are playing with men’s hearts and breaking them without even a second
thought. I actually do not blame them, I know it is bad. But truth is some
women have been through a lot and taken a lot of crap in their lives, so before
you call a woman “cold”, “heartless” or “a bitch”, you do not know half of what
she has been through. I am not in support of the disloyalty but I think most
men saw it coming. These days women have their ways of getting money whether
good or bad means, it has given them power to have confidence and get what they
desire.
I guess most of you have heard those
stories of how a man will finance a girl’s studies simply because he loves her.
And in the end when she has graduated from university and acquired a good paying job, that’s it she
forgets the man who has brought her that far and goes for the man she wants. True
women are not loyal, they may promise and act like saints but they will not
think twice about breaking a boys heart and moving on. No offense but men are
like dogs, if you treat him right and love him the way he wants, he will be
loyal so women should not blame their disloyalty on a man, they had a choice.
Not all women are disloyal some are loyal but I guarantee you that they are
few.
