LOYALTY

Remember that saying, about the world being round, it’s true and best practical example is the way how women are slowly taking over the world. Whether you see it or not, accept it or not, it is happening and it is slowly picking pace. Men have dominated the world for too long and subjected women to a lot of things. In the past, as a girl your parents made the decision of whom you should marry and bear children with. All this was done for the parents benefit, bride price was given to them and the girl child would not even get a portion of that bride price. That was how bad it was but with time this practice has phased out.

They say money is not everything but in the world we live in today, money is everything. It is funny how a man can promise a girl heaven on earth even when he has nothing. When reality hits and they are married with no money, frustration and anger kicks in and life becomes unbearable. Yes, there will be some happy times but the bad times will outweigh the good times and the picture would have been different if they had money. Sad fact is a woman will leave a poor man to be with a rich man whether she loves him or not. Simply because the society today is all about status and the poor life is too hard to live. Who does not love a simple life?

Men had their time to play with women’s hearts and break them and in all this time women were trying to be loyal. Now the tables have turned, women are playing with men’s hearts and breaking them without even a second thought. I actually do not blame them, I know it is bad. But truth is some women have been through a lot and taken a lot of crap in their lives, so before you call a woman “cold”, “heartless” or “a bitch”, you do not know half of what she has been through. I am not in support of the disloyalty but I think most men saw it coming. These days women have their ways of getting money whether good or bad means, it has given them power to have confidence and get what they desire.

I guess most of you have heard those stories of how a man will finance a girl’s studies simply because he loves her. And in the end when she has graduated from university and  acquired a good paying job, that’s it she forgets the man who has brought her that far and goes for the man she wants. True women are not loyal, they may promise and act like saints but they will not think twice about breaking a boys heart and moving on. No offense but men are like dogs, if you treat him right and love him the way he wants, he will be loyal so women should not blame their disloyalty on a man, they had a choice. Not all women are disloyal some are loyal but I guarantee you that they are few.