A FEW SECONDS

Life does not always go the way we want, we do not always get what we want. It is funny how a few seconds can change your entire life. A few seconds of you being involved in an accident can change your whole life. You might end up losing your leg, arm or any other part of your body, even worse some people get amnesia. A few seconds of you engaging in a conversation with your friends, spouse, mentor, or just a stranger can change your life. Whoever it might be, one of the people that you engage in a conversation with might say something that will give you the answers you have been looking for, that is when things start to make perfect sense to you. Even a few second s of you screwing around could change your life. You might end up getting pregnant, or contracting a deadly disease, or worse you might lose your life. 

All these things create a difference in your life, it might be slight or big but in the end it all creates a difference. Some people end up becoming very bitter and withdrawn from the people that care and love them, this is common with people who are involved in accidents. They feel lost, confused, they lose the confidence they once had, life just becomes meaningless for them. Some become very aware of the people around them, they take caution of what they say and how they behave. It is hard for them to trust. Many of our friends pretend to care yet in actual sense they do not give a shit. They are our friends because we have something that they want and can be of a benefit to them. When you are a failure in life nobody wants to be associated with you, but when you are somebody even your worst enemy will pretend to know you.

 A few seconds is all it takes for you to realize what is actually going on around you, it can either make you or break you. A person may say just a sentence that will make perfect sense to you, you will realize that the answers were right in front of you the whole time. Sometimes the people we love leave us without giving us a clear reason, it might be our patterns of behavior, the way we treat them, envy, or something we said some time back. It is easy to ask for forgiveness and be forgiven, but it is truly hard to forget. Sometimes we do not think about the consequences of our actions on others, most of us are selfish and only think of ourselves. The things we do affect the people that love and care about us. 

Not everybody in our lives wish us the best, a good number of them wait to see our downfall. The world is filled with so much hate, envy and jealousy, that is why there is a lot of competition in everything. To survive in this world you have to be strong, confident, focused, a fighter and most of all have a positive mind and attitude towards every thing that comes your way. Because the truth is people are there to put you down, make fun of you, talk about you and do anything to see that you are not successful. It is up to you to be strong and fight to the end for what you want. We all create our own destiny. A few seconds in our lives is all it takes to change our destiny, anything can happen in a few seconds. Think before you act.