DEAR LADIES

re- posted from Al Kabir Brian Nandala's articles 

DEAR LADIES,
Be a Woman, Not a Slut!

Partying, clubbing, getting wasted, sleeping with randoms, going out every weekend, etc. Is only "fun" for so long because at some point you get bored with all that because you grow up and realize all you're doing is trying to escape loneliness and emptiness. A lot of you chicks who brag about getting drunk, how you had so much fun last night, how you don't ne...ed a man blah blah blah, how you "think like a man", you are going to get tired of being just a booty call and going home alone after the club every weekend or hooking up with random dudes who don't even respect you. 

 

When you finally are ready to grow up and become wife material instead of a alcoholic, party girl, drug addict, booty call, jumpoff, etc. Ain't no real men going to be checking for you anymore, so you are going to get bac...k with your ex like most females do or settle for some low life who ain't about shit like most females do then be pissed later crying about "why can't I find a good man?" The answEr is simply because you WEREN'T ABOUT SHIT WHEN GOOD MEN GAVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY!
 

So to the females who love going to hood bars, love getting attention from thirsty dudes, love sitting on Facebook taking ratchetpics, love uggling dudes, have to sleep alone every night, have fun being a booty call, have fun being labeled everything but a WOMAN, have fun being some nigga's option, instead of a real man's priority all because you are scaredof commitment and can't handle something REAL.
 

You can't be a slut your whole life,or have a bunch of kids by different guys, or "go out" every weekend, and then expect a real man to "court" you. It doesn't work that way. If you wanna be courted, then be the type of woman a man would want to court because men don't want to wife a hoodrat or a chick with a bunch of kids or a female who embarrasses herself for attention.
 

So make your next move the best move ladies. Stop playing yourselves. "Having fun" shouldn'tinclude losing self respect!